Saturday, January 12, 2013

Memories and Thanks Blog Hop

Today is the reveal for the Memories and Thanks Blog Hop, another loving inspiration from Lori Anderson creative wonder and the writer of the Pretty Things blog. As a tribute to someone we chose to honor and remember, we are today showing in the reveal what we made for those special persons in our lives.

There have been blog hops throughout 2012, all which sounded amazing and all I missed with the adventure that last year Was.  When I read about this one, I decided that it couldn't be missed. I knew who I would pay honor to, what stories I could share, and finally the time to dedicate to such a proposition.  What I did not count on was the Missing, the backlog of emotion, the quiet tears and the resultant migraine headache.

I chose to make a bracelet for my friend Carol, who left this earth for larger spaces in 2005. We met in Birmingham Alabama in 1995.  As the Manager of a store that sold museum replica art, we met when she came for an interview as a sales person.  She was tiny, about 5'1", wearing sensible shoes and a lovely white blouse. (I was later to learn that she was the Imelda Marcos of white blouses that she swore could be worn for any occasion!)  When she began to speak, I was enthralled with her deep, gravely voice and an accent that I later found was from New Orleans. She was 60, newly divorced and looking for the chance to complete part of her bucket list.  I found her presence enthralling, and hired her on the spot.

We began a friendship that was the most remarkable that I have ever had the joy to experience. The 25 years difference in our ages melted away in spirited discussions on every subject imaginable. We shared every aspect of our lives and we both shared the same quirky sense of humor and could elicit nearly hysterical laughter from the other.  There was just so much happiness and genuine love between us.  She knew that I had studied art and always encouraged me to find my way back to my first love. Not in just selling art created by long dead other artists, but to seek out my own muse, my own creative spirit, my own voice.  She nicknamed me the White Witch because, as she used to quip, "There is just always a feeling of magic around you, like you belong in Stonehenge." 

Carol blessed my life in many ways, not the least in introducing me to my wonderful husband, who it turned out had been a friend of hers for years too!  It was as though heaven and earth moved all things in her life, in mine and even my husband's life, to allow us such an amazing time together.  When I was growing up, my Mom would tell me that if I lived my whole life and could count on one hand life's true friendships, I would be lucky. As the years passed in knowing Carol, I understood what she meant.

Whenever we were just hanging out, or would go grab a hamburger at our favorite place, there we would be in our blue jeans and white blouses, with the cuffs turned back to show off our mutual adoration for bracelets...the bolder, the better!

In memory of Carol, I chose to make a bracelet lovingly hand made in copper, the color of Dewar's Scotch, her favorite.  Then I added blues with lots of variation and enameled beads. And to bring things full circle, I chose to use lamp work glass beads from a new friend, Jan Thompson at JanZartGlass.

A toast to Carol. 



Carol's Charm

Here are other blogs to explore:

Hostess, Lori Anderson       Pretty Things


 Adlinah Kamsir                   Dream Struck Designs
 Aimee Biondolillo               Aimee's Jewelry Treasures
 Alicia Marinache                 All the Pretty Things 
 Andra Marasteanu               Handmade by Indra Marasteanu 
 Andrea Trank                      Heaven Lane Creations
 April Grinaway                   Brooklyn Bead Goddess
Barb Solem                         Vivi Magoo Presents
Becky Pancake                    Becky Pancake Bead Designs
Beth Emery                         Stories by Indigo Heart
Bonnie Coursolle                Jasper's Gems
Cassi Paslick                       Beads: Rolling Downhill
Catherine King                    Catherine's Musings
Cece Cormier                      The Beading Yogini
Chandra Leitz                     Juniper Goods
Charissa Nesler                   FireStorm Designs
Charlie Jacka                       Clay Space
Christina Hickman              Vintage Treasures Jewelry
Christine Murrow               Charis Designs Jewelry
Christine Stonefield            Sweet Girl Design
Chrizette Bayman               Bead Soup Mix
Cindy Wilson                      It's My Sea of Dreams
CJ Bauschka                       4 His Glory Creations by CJ
Crystal Thain                      Here Bead Dragons
Cyndi Lavin                        Beading Arts
Debbie Rasmussen             A little of this, a little of that
Denielle Hagerman             Some Beads... and other things I like
Diana Gonzalez                  Arte y Poemas
Diane Hawkey                    diane hawkey
Dita Basu                            ankarshilpa
Donetta Farrington             Simply Gorgeous
Dyanne Everett-Cantrell     Deeliteful Jewelry Creations
Emma Todd                        A Polymer Penchant
Erin Kenny                         beadiful therapy
Erin Prais-Hintz                  Treasures Found
Gina Hockett                      Freestyle Elements
Gloria Allen                        Innovative Dreams Jewelry
Heather Marston                 CSW Designs
Inge von Roos                    Inge's Blog
Iveth Caruso                       Creative Atelier
Jacqueline Marchant          Fiddledeedee Jewelry
Jami Shipp                         Celebrating Life!
Jean Yates                          Snap Out of it Jean, There's Beading to Do!
Jennifer Reno                     Musings of a Crafty Jenny
Jenny Robledo                   Peppa's Dream
Jennifer VanBenschoten    Jewelry, Art and Life
Jessica Klaaren                  Cellar Door Jewelry
Jessica Murray                   Whimsical Monkey
Joan Williams                     lilruby jewelry
Jo-Ann Woolverton            It's a Beadiful Creation
Joanne Browne                   josjewels1
Jodie Marshall                    Jodie Marshall Lampwork Beads Wearable Art
Johanna Rhodes                 Fire Phoenix Creations
John Rasmussen                 Rasumussen Gems and Jewelry LLC
JuLee Wolfe                       The Polymer Penguin
Julie Bean                           Blue Pig Blog
Karen Mitchell                   Over the Moon Designs
Karin King                         The Sparklie Things Blog
Karin Slaton                       Backstory Beads
Kat Douglas                       Washoe Kat's
Kay Bolton                        Toodles and Binks
Kelly Hosford Patterson     The Traveling SideShow
Kim Ballor                          Vitamin C ... A Daily Does of Creativity
Kim Dworak                       CianciBlue
Kim Houston                       The Pink Martini
Kym Hunter                         Kym Hunter Designs
Laren Dee Barton                Laren Dee Designs
Lea Avroch                          LA Jewelry Designs
Leanne Loftus                      First Impression Design
Liddy McLaughlin               Liddy McLaughlin Art
Linda Florian                       Lily's of the Valley Jewelry & Creative Creations
Linda Inhelder                     Must-Haves Jewelry
Lisa Hamilton                      Simply Irresistable Jewelry
Lisa Suver                            Fancee That
Lori Bowring Michaud        Artfully Ornamental
Lori Poppe                           Adventures in Creativity with Lorillijean
LouAnn Elwell                    Southpass Beads
Mandi Effron                       Craft-o-licious
Marcia DeCoster                 MadDesigns
Marcia Dunne                     The Alternative Foundry
Marie Covert                      Creating Interest
Marjorie Savill Linthwaite     bennubirdrising
Marlene Cupo                        Amazing Designs by Marlene
Martha Aleo                           Ornamento
Marti Conrad                          Marti's Buttons -n- Beads
Mary Ellen Parker                  BeeTree by m.e.
Mary Govaars                        MLH Jewelry Designs
Mary Lindell                          Mary Lindell Artisan Jewelry
Maureen Connolly                 Mrs Beadsley's Workshop
Maybeline Tay                       The Jewelry Larder
Melissa Elgin                         The Addicted Beader
Melissa Mesara                      one-eared pig beads
Menka Gupta                         Menka's Jewelry
Michaela Pabeschitz              la mar de bonita
Mischelle Fanucchi               Micheladas Musings
Mona Rae Baroody               Who Does She Bead She Is?
Nan Emmett                          Spirit Rattles -- Spirited Earth
Nancy Pedersen                    Something Heartfelt by Nancy
Natalie Davidson                  NorthShore Days
Nikki Douglas                      Bead It and Weep
Pam Farren                           re-maker
Pam, the Crazier Sister        The Crazy Creative Corner
Pam Traub                            Klassy Joolz
Priya Krish                           Hellopalz 
Rebecca Anderson               Song Beads
Rebecca Sirevaag                 Becca's Place
Robin Kae Reed                   Artistry HCBD
Rochelle Brisson                  a creative chelle
Rosa Maria Cuevas              Helena de Troya
Sabine Dittrich                     perlendschungel
Sandi Volpe                          Sandi Volpe
Sandra McGriff                    Creative Chaos
Sarah Goode                         Pookledo
Sarah Singer                         String a Song of Sixpence
Serena Trent                         All Things Made Jewelry
Shai Williams                       Shaiha's Ramblings
Sharon Palac                        Sharon's Jewelry Garden
Sharyl McMillian-Nelson    Sharyl's Jewelry & Reflections
Sheila Davis                         Stone Designs
Shelley Graham Turner        Fabric of My Life
Sherri Stokey                       Knot Just Macrame
Sherry Baun                         Unicorns Jewels
Skylar Bre'z                         Brising Beads
Stephanie Haussler              Pixybug Designs
Tania Spivey                        Moobie Grace Designs
Terri G.                                Blooming Ideas
Terry Carter                         Tapping Flamingo
Terry Matuszyk                    Pink Chapeau Vintage Jewelry
Toltec Jewels                       Jewel School Friends
Tracy Kruse                         Goldkisses Art
Tracy Martin                        Nutkitten's Jewelry
Zia Parks                              Anzi~Panzi's Work Shoppe
Zoe Marcin                          Beads, Tea and Sweets
 




26 comments:

Karin Slaton said...

What a beautiful toast to a charming friend! How could "the Imelda Marcos of White Blouses" not love this!!!

Unknown said...

Very pretty bracelet and I'm calling my best friend this weekend! Bless you!

one-eared pig said...

A beautiful bracelet; she sounds like a wonderful person.

diane hawkey said...

Carol sounds like the friend everyone wants to have. You made a lovely piece for her.

Monique (A Half-Baked Notion) said...

Tracy, I'll bet your wonderful friend Carol would have been proud to wear this lovely bracelet! Thank you for sharing such a precious memory.

Alicia said...

A heartwarming story - with a gorgeous piece as a tribute for a special friend. Your mom was right: you are lucky and blessed to have had such a presence in your life!

Anonymous said...

Lovely bracelet. Your friend Carol, indeed, sounds like she was a charm.

Jean Katherine Baldridge said...

That is perfectly stunning, and Carol sounds so beautiful, as a person and a friend. I love your tribute to her! You are as special as she!
xox jean

A Polymer Penchant said...

I met my best friend at 6 and she has the most infectious laugh of all time. At least, I cannot NOT join her if she is laughing. This got us into all kinds of trouble over the years. I am imaging your friend just like that. you get drawn to that essence. THank you for sharing, I am a blue girl myself and that is one stunning bracelet!

Unknown said...

I love the piece you made to honor your friend.The story was wonderful and made me tear up.Thank you for sharing it! :)

Christine said...

You were definitely blessed to know Carol and I bet she felt the same way. I love the fact that the copper matches her favorite drink - your bracelet is lovely!

Here Bead Dragons said...

How lucky you and Carol were to be friends. The bracelet is lovely - great colors. Thanks for sharing.

~cryssT

adlinah said...

Friends like Carol are a blessing. I'm glad you have a decade of wonderful memories to remember her by. I love the gorgeous colours of your bracelet - such a fitting way to honour the memory of you friend.

Becky Pancake said...

Tracy your bracelet is beautiful. It's a wonderful tribute to Carol. Thanx for sharing.

la mar de bonita said...

A wonderful story of a true friendship, thank you for sharing with us. You have made a beautiful bracelet (I love copper too) in tribute to her!

Kepi said...

I love your bracelet, coppers and blues and meant for each other, what a wonderful tribute.

The Jewelry Larder said...

It is such a blessing to have a great and true friend. Your creation is so beautiful. What a lovely tribute to a wonderful friend.

The Jewelry Larder said...

It is indeed a great blessing to have a true and great friend. I love your beautiful creation and it is a fitting tribute to a wonderful friend.

Terri said...

I adore this bracelet! Your friend is sure to love it. A beautiful tribute for sure! Hope you enjoyed the hop!
Hugs
Terri G.

Jan Thompson said...

And I am so blessed to have you as a new friend. I hope that we can meet soon. The bracelet is wonderful, who would have though that that bead could be made to look so pretty. Thanks Tracy, for everything. XX

Andrea said...

Wonderful story about friendship and gorgeous bracelet. I agree about the number of true friends and how special those friendships can be.

re-maker said...

Love your bracelet and your story. Thanks for sharing!

Kimberly said...

What a gorgeous tribute to your friend! I am sure she would love it! Love that she introduced you to your DH!

MaryL said...

Your friend sounds like she was an awesome lady. Your bracelet is very beautiful - it is a lovely tribute to your friend.

april grinaway said...

Beautiful bracelet and thank you for sharing...
Peace and Love..

Lisa said...

I love your story and your bracelet that honors your true, good friend! Plus, I've always loved beautiful crisp, white blouses! Going to check out your new friend's lampwork beads, too. Sorry so late in hopping with this hop, we've been following our senior daughter and her basketball games. Fun times! Thanks for your sweet comments on my jewelry. Have a great week! :)